Basically Besties

This week on Basically Besties, Kat and Deja are catching up on everything from concert chaos and internet backlash to exciting new chapters in their personal and professional lives. The besties also dive into all the latest Sunny Dé and Aéropostale updates, Kat’s new eye patches, and Deja’s journey into guitar and singing lessons. Plus, they talk about the pressure young people face to have their entire futures figured out and why it’s completely okay to try something new, change your mind, and figure it out along the way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's mini episode, Marcus and Deja talk about finding your people during the most chaotic stage of their lives: internet fame. With smashing success comes fake people, drama, jealousy, and more, but it's finding your best friends that makes it all worth it. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on Basically Besties, Deja Clark is joined by Marcus Johnson to talk about living out his LA dream, building a life as a creator, friendship, fashion, and everything that comes with making it in Los Angeles. Marcus opens up about why he moved to LA, his journey as a content creator, the story behind his fashion brand, and his goal of eventually opening his own store. He and Deja also get into how they first met, how their friendship grew through streaming together, and the moments that helped them both go viral. Plus, they talk LA life, festivals, upcoming concerts, their ideal routines, and answer some of your biggest questions — including how tall they actually are. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Gina Kirschenheiter joins Kat to giggle and get real about being girl moms. From boy drama to stealing clothes, daughters can be fiercely competitive. What can we do as moms to remind our children that, at the end of the day, family is what matters most? Sisters are meant to be besties! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Kat sits down with fellow mom andThe Real Housewives of Orange County star Gina Kirschenheiter for a candid conversation about life on and off reality TV. Gina takes us behind the scenes of RHOC, sharing how she unexpectedly landed on the show, what filming is really like, and why her cast mates have become more like coworkers—and family—over the years. Plus, the girls get into the realities of being recognized in public, handling fan interactions, and whether a new generation of reality stars could be on the horizon. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's mini episode, Liv Walker dives into your DMs with Kat to give advice on hitting DELETE on old photos with your ex. But, is it worth holding on or time to start moving on? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on Basically Besties, we’re joined by a Love Island USA Season 6 alum for a VERY unfiltered catch-up! From what life is actually like inside the villa (yes, you really are being filmed 24/7) to the reality of going from a few thousand followers to over a million overnight, we’re getting into everything that happens on—and after—the show. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's mini episode, Latisha talks about the reality of being engaged and how EVERYONE is already asking questions about the wedding day plans.... She gives her advice to newly engaged girlies and how she is taking it all in, one day at a time. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Latisha and her best friend Seb have been inseparable since kindergarten, so naturally, they have a lot to talk about. In this episode, they get into the funniest and most unhinged moments they’ve shared, the rare times they’ve actually fought, and what it’s like growing up and navigating adulthood together. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Latisha is sooooo ready to trade in dating for the rock on her ring finger. She is in her fiancé eraaaa. This episode is for the besties who are ready for the next chapter or maybe they just want to say bye bye single life. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Besties, THIS IS WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR!!! Latisha sits down with Seb to talk through the ENGAGEMENT. This is one you DON'T want to miss! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Kat is back and she is flooded with your questions from the DMs. This week, we are talking about the pain of closing one chapter to open another, regret, and moving on. We are holding back tears as Kat lets our bestie know that it's all going to be okay. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's episode, Kat is solo-hosting the pod for the besties and getting real about all the fam has been up to. From recapping a crazy busy summer of traveling, booking jobs, releasing fashion lines, and attending music festivals to the behind the scenes of the moments right before Latisha said YES! We also see a vulnerable side of Kat as she reflects on her time when the family first moved across the globe to LA, scared of what the future held. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's mini episode, Tisha is riding solo for a bestie to bestie chat. From her birthday celebration without Kat to recognizing that her fam has been living in the USA for a whole year now, it's time for Tisha to catch up with you, besties! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Latisha is joined by special guest Aunty Sofia for a conversation full of laughs, unexpected stories, and honest reflections on building a life that's anything but ordinary. Sofia shares her journey from working a corporate job and selling real estate to living out of a van, documenting her travels, and unexpectedly building a thriving online community. She opens up about the highs and lows of social media, the realities of being a solo female traveler, setting boundaries online, and why success isn't always as glamorous as it looks. The conversation also dives into Sofia's ADHD diagnosis, how she's learned to embrace it as a strength, the support she receives from her partner Jake, and why finding a home on 30 acres hasn't stopped her love for adventure. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's mini episode, Kat and Deja discuss a hot topic, to get or not to get: Plastic Surgery. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's episode, Deja interviews Kat all about her 40th birthday. She shares what went down on her surprise trip to Mexico, as well as the life lessons she has learned along the way. If you're a loyal bestie, this is one that you don't want to miss! Join us in celebrating Kat's birthday! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This mini episode with Dance Moms star Ashley Hosbach brings up a question we have all been wondering.... What would our lives look like as a boy moms? Listen to hear what Kat and Ashley would change about their parenting if they didn't raise girls. Would the boys basically be besties, too? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dance Moms star Ashley Hosbach joins us to talk about the beautiful (and slightly heartbreaking) reality of watching your child become independent. From moving to Pittsburgh for the hit reality TV show with just two weeks' notice to helping Presley navigate fame, criticism, and career opportunities, Ashley shares the lessons she's learned as both a dance mom and a momager. We dive into parenting through major life transitions, staying grounded in the entertainment industry, and what comes next when your kids start building lives of their own. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this mini-episode, Kat and Deja advise one of the besties on how to get back in the dating scene with confidence after a break up. Listen to hear how the girls would approach going on the first date after splitting up with your ex and making the most of it! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, we're diving into all things dating, relationships, and crushes. From our most embarrassing moments in front of people we liked to the biggest red flags and icks we'd never ignore, nothing is off limits. We talk about what makes a healthy relationship last, why communication matters, and whether finding "the one" is better than playing the dating game. We also share our thoughts on modern dating, why talking stages are so confusing, our dream first dates, and answer some rapid-fire relationship questions. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this mini episode, Kat and Deja discuss mean girls and how to handle the heat.... Bestie, put them in the Burn Book. Listen in to hear how Kat and Deja would handle this situation and give their bestie advice! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week’s episode gets real. From awkward “side eye” moments in public to childhood bullying, fake friendships, and online hate, we’re talking about the judgment people project onto others — and how we’ve learned to protect our peace instead of feeding into the drama. Sometimes the best response is standing up for yourself… and sometimes it’s just hitting block. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's mini episode, one of our listeners' third eye chakra is off... The girls give advice on traveling to different places with your besties, trusting your gut, and making the most of girls trips. Listen in to find out what the girls think you should do when your friends have an unsafe travel plan! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, the girls kick things off with endless rain ruining swim plans, to painful neck injuries, to finding out people have been talking behind their backs. The conversation quickly turns into all things travel as they unpack their very different vacation personalities, upcoming trips across Europe and Japan, and the chaos that comes with nonstop flights and family holidays. They share hilarious stories about overpacking, detailed itineraries, shopping habits, and the emotional attachment to archived fashion, while also getting real about travel safety, backpacker horror stories, and the lessons they’ve learned from traveling overseas. It’s part travel diary, part therapy session, and fully the kind of chaotic bestie conversation you’d expect. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's mini episode, we discuss first time drivers behind the wheel. With Deja practicing driving to get her license, the Besties have the green light to give their honest advice. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on Basically Besties, the girls get into everything from travel chaos (including a missed connecting flight) to navigating unexpected internet backlash after posting something a little too relatable. On the business side, they break down what’s next for Sunny De, including an upcoming warehouse sale and why they’ve shifted to a more balanced launch schedule. They open up about building their skincare and deodorant products with sensitive skin in mind, and what it really looks like to juggle school, social media, and running a brand. The conversation turns personal as they talk future goals—whether that’s exploring music, dreaming about motherhood and a more private life, or imagining completely different career paths outside of influencing. They wrap things up with a candid chat about ambition, financial independence, and the women who inspire them to think bigger as they step into their next era. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on Basically Besties, we’re joined by the Steman family and get into the different roles everyone plays in the family—who you go to for advice, who brings the humor, and how a mom becomes the emotional backbone not just for her kids, but for everyone in their orbit. But the conversation takes a serious turn when they share a life-altering family accident that changed everything. What started as a normal day ended in a terrifying hospital stay, forcing them to confront how fragile life really is. The experience reshaped their perspective, brought them closer than ever, and even reconnected them with family they hadn’t spoken to in years. This episode is a reminder to hold your people close, let go of the small stuff, and never take a single moment for granted. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's mini episode, we opened your DM about missing Coachella 2026. Feeling left out is the WORST, but Kat and her cousins tell you guys how to fight the FOMO and ways to remind yourself that you're that girl even if you didn't make it to the desert this year. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on Basically Besties, the girls are recapping their Coachella trip! Kat’s cousins, Netty and Lyn, break down why they chose Coachella as their 40th birthday celebration and their honest thoughts on Justin Bieber’s headlining set. From sleepless nights and hours-long traffic just to get into the festival, to Camp Poosh, Revolve Fest, gifting suites, and the wild moment when North West recognized their kids from social media. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week's mini episode dives deep into the emotional psyche of kids keeping secrets from their parents. Polina Marian offers insight on why kids do it and how we can help our children feel safe to tell us anything! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on Basically Besties, Polina (aka @lifewithfivekids) opens up about her journey through early marriage, motherhood of five, and the pivotal experiences that reshaped her life—including a transformative trip to Nepal that led her to reevaluate everything she knew about relationships and ultimately choose divorce. She shares raw insights on emotional intelligence, communication, and what it really takes to build healthy relationships—plus her perspective on dating as a single mom and why she’s embracing a more playful, aligned approach to love. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week's mini episode goes out to the besties with boyfriend drama... Avani is deep in your DMs and gives her best advice (and red flags). Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on Basically Besties, special guest Avani Gregg sits down with the besties for one of the most honest and vulnerable conversations yet. Avani takes us back to the beginning, but it hasn’t all been highlight reels. She shares what it was really like being TikTok famous at such a young age and quietly battling public scrutiny as her career skyrocketed.Now, she’s stepping into a new era—actress, fashion designer, and finding love in an unexpected way... Avani gives Deja real bestie advice: learn when to tune out the noise. This episode is all about defining success on your own terms. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's mini episode, Jonathan sits down with Kat and Deja to answer your confessions from the DMs. Listen in to hear his take on a hot topic... splitting the bill. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Jonathan gets into what it really means to be a girl dad. From the moment of finding out you’re raising daughters to navigating the rollercoaster of the teenage years, this conversation is equal parts honest and heartfelt. Jonathan talks about the importance of communication, trust, and staying connected—even when it’s uncomfortable. And of course—we go there. Dating, boys, standards, and the role parents play in shaping what their daughters accept (and don’t accept) in relationships. Nothing is off limits. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's mini episode, Jackson and Brooks give the besties advise on style. Is copying a bestie's style flattering or too much? Listen to find out. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we’re joined by viral twin brothers, Jackson and Brooks Harvey. From their “telepathic” twin bond, wild childhood stories (including taking the fall for each other) to arguments sometimes turn into full-on wrestling matches, it’s all part of how siblings communicate and stay close. The boys talk about how posting casually brought them full-blown social media careers—and how that shift has turned their sibling relationship into a business partnership. It's safe to say that Jackson and Brookes are besties for life! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's mini episode, our listener asks about living with super strict parents...Yikes. Kat and Deja give their best advice as a mom-daughter duo who are also built-in besties! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week Kat and Deja get real about sneaking out, late-night Ubers, spending habits, and the growing pains of being a teenage daughter with a bestie and mom wrapped up in one. They open up about how filming hair videos strengthened their relationship, why being an “open book” builds trust, and the lessons they’ve learned about dating, confidence, and communication. From embracing natural curls to calling out red flags, it’s a candid conversation about motherhood, independence, and why they’ll always be best friends — even when they don’t agree. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this listener advice episode, the girls dive into a MAJOR friendship red flag and one of the most controversial topics there is.... the GROUP CHAT. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

From a chance meeting at a White Fox event to sharing rooms in the Bahamas, this episode dives deep into the long-distance friendship between two teens navigating life, social media, and growing up in completely different states. They open up about how their bond grew on a Bahamas trip, the early communication struggles and the instant trust they felt as two of the youngest girls sharing a room. They reflect on first impressions and why having a friend who understands the social media world feels different. The girls and Kat wrap with advice for making new friends: talk to everyone, find your people, keep your circle small, and most importantly that real friendships can grow anywhere… even over Baja Blast. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's episode, Latisha pulls off the ultimate plot twist, the girls dive into what it’s really like living between LA and Australia, why Latisha loves feeling “small” and anonymous in LA, and dreams of chasing summer forever with homes in both countries. The girls also spiral into 2016 nostalgia like prime YouTube, the Musicaly era, and why that year just hit different. Would Latisha have thrived in 2016 LA? Probably. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Gabby McCarthy, night one bombshell of the latest Love Island, joins the podcast to dish on her whirlwind experience in the villa and the real-life lessons that followed. From shocking behind-the-scenes truths about filming, producers, and "trauma bonds," to navigating unwanted attention and online backlash, Gabby gets candid on everything. Listen in on her journey of healing, how Love Island reshaped her standards in dating, and the advice she wishes she could give her younger self. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Kat sits down with Angelo and Lexi (her first guests in America!!!) and talk moving from Australia, starting their social media careers, and adjusting to life in the U.S. They cover all the cultural shocks (yes, the food!), and recap the highs, lows, and lessons of chasing opportunities abroad. Angelo and Lexy miss THIS the most about home and their goals for the future in America... Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.